You ARE a sexist and it’s strange that you would mention that you’re “not gay” when no one has brought anything like that up before you. The fact that you inserted that one statement leaves me to believe you must be compensating for something. Maybe you are gay (not that there’s anything wrong with that) and you just haven’t been honest with us this whole time about your sexuality.
I’m sure Seltin must be glad she has you to patrol the internet for “scammers being her”. You’re like a one man Seltin protection squad. I just think though you’ve been not completely honest with her, have you told her that you’re a sexist yet? Any good relationship is based on honesty, I don’t believe you’ve been honest with Seltin about you being a sexist and possibly your sexuality either.